I actually hosted a similar free event back in 2021!
The post below was the announcement.
【Humanity X Spirituality】 A Conversation Between a Psychologist and a Medium #01
https://skylikesun.blogspot.com/2021/02/clubhouse1.html
Even though I was born with the gift of mediumship and can receive messages from the spirit realm and other non-physical beings, I’ve found—through years of teaching—that most people’s real challenges don’t actually come from the spirit world.
They usually come from everyday life: emotions, relationships, and the pressures of being human.
Spiritual influences are often secondary — or sometimes not even part of the issue at all.
For example:
＊Someone struggling to find a job. They feel cursed or believe they’re haunted by negative spirits. But when I look at their energy field, what I see is this:
In past experiences, they were often dismissed or invalidated, never given a true sense of worth. So now, whenever they face authority figures—like a supervisor—they go into panic. Under pressure, they fumble, and the frustration from past relationships gets projected onto the present moment. It’s not that they’re cursed. They’re simply unfamiliar with human interaction and unsure how to take part in a community.
＊A parent feels a severe disconnect with their child. They are eager to spend time together, yet the more they try, the further the child withdraws. They assume it must be a karmic burden passed down through the family line.
I see in their energy field an intense need for control — an inability to accept differing opinions from the child. There is excessive concern for preserving parental dignity, and the belief of “this is for your own good” ends up severing trust, leaving the child suffocated and deeply disappointed.
＊Frequently anxious, unable to sleep well — even biting nails or pulling hair, with intense emotional fluctuations. Wanting to live, yet not knowing how to go on.
I see strong self-criticism — an expectation to perform well, but without the patience to build a foundation. So every attempt ends up rushed, the results never as good as imagined, leading to even deeper self-loathing. It’s as if their inner world is a runaway train, forced to keep charging forward, afraid to stop. Their first lessons are: “accepting imperfection” and “understanding that taking a break is completely valid.”
＊Suffering a serious incident involving danger or violence, their first reaction was to ask about the karmic connection between themselves and the other person, instead of calling the police.
I could only urgently tell them to call the police and seek help from proper safety organizations! Discussions about spiritual energy or karmic ties can only happen after they are out of harm’s way. We can only examine and explore the situation when you're safe.
Many people have a delayed sensation to stress. Under pressure, they completely ignore their own safety and care more about preserving the relationship with the other person.
Of course, this also helps me understand that if some mind-body-spirit practitioners have ill intentions, they could indeed deceive panicked clients into spending large sums on religious rituals for protection, because the clients have clearly lost their ability to judge objectively.
I have even heard of many unfortunate cases where people lost both money and resources, yet the danger remained unresolved. This is truly regrettable.
When I perceive someone’s needs, I also sense the structure, driving forces, and momentum behind those needs, as well as the energetic connections between themselves, others, and their environment. These may differ from what they consciously think.
It’s also possible to see whether they are open to receiving feedback.
I can observe the energy patterns and their underlying causes, identifying which issues are primary and which are secondary.
Each person has their own logic and experience-based tendencies, but often lacks sufficient self-awareness and strategies to protect themselves or avoid harm.
I do not aim to simply provide answers.
My goal is to help clients deepen their self-understanding.
I tend to guide through questions, subtle hints, and sharing only small pieces of insight, encouraging clients to reflect repeatedly over several days. This process also helps them cultivate patience and self-compassion.
The type of guidance I offer resembles psychological counseling, and ideally, I would defer entirely to licensed therapists for this work. At most, I act as someone offering a brief prompt or a gentle nudge.
Perhaps there are indeed influences from non-physical beings, but they cannot give you what you lack—they can only stir up what already exists within you.
Moreover, there are many types of these beings, each with different purposes. Some may even be trapped in human energy fields through no fault of their own.
In other words, as long as a person’s physical and mental health is stable, the influence of these beings is limited.
It is only when someone’s mind and body are unsettled that these beings can lead them into trouble.
If the basic issue of “mind-body stability” is not addressed, the same disturbances are likely to recur.
Ultimately, people should focus on: “How can I take care of my own mind and body?” and train the ‘muscles’ of both spirit and body.
I deeply wish for those who have lost faith in humanity—including professionals, doctors, and psychotherapists—to regain trust in themselves and in other humans.
I want them to believe that their struggles can be supported by existing professionals, without necessarily seeking help from spirits.
Self-understanding is, in fact, the starting point for almost all challenges.
